It has been awhile but I have continued to visit the site a few times a month. It has been 4 and a half years since I lost Kathryn. I was unable to go anywhere in Jacksonville without seeing Kathryn there. The memories were every where and I was not dealing well with them. I had a friend invite me up to Sky Valley Ga. for a week of golf and I found it very peaceful. There was a couple there who wanted to sell their condo and after returning to Jacksonville I decided I needed to get out of Jacksonville in order to move on and bought the condo and moved up in June of 2016. In October of 2016 I met a really nice lady and we started seeing other on a regular basis. Her name is Janice. On August 29th I asked her to get married and she said yes. We are getting married on Nov. 18th of this year (my Mother's birthday). We have talked about Kathryn and she understands that I will always have a great love for Kathryn and she will accepts that she will continue to be a part of my life. Oh October 25th she asked me if I was ok because she knew it was Kathryn's birthday. We went to Jacksonville for a week and put flowers on Kathryn's grave together also.