I know there have been comments regarding the use of baby monitors to make sure your spouse is safe. I was wondering if anyone who is using a monitor would recommend one that would be best to use. I want a monitor that has 2 parental units because we have a live-in aide so we would both want on, preferrably one where the aide and I could communicate as well.
LFL, we had very good results with a Graco baby monitor system that we bought locally at Toys R Us or some such place, but I see that there is a 2-unit model available on-line now at http://www.meijer.com/catalog/search_command.cmd?keyword=graco+baby+monitor for $71.99 that seemingly has far better specs than what was available three or four years ago when we used one.
Now that dh is home from rehab (knee still broken) I decided I needed a baby monitor with a camera so we could see him and make sure he is safe in his room at night. I wanted one that allowed us to see him at night and of course hear him and be able to talk to him as well. I chose the vetch camera and monitor (VTech safe & sound 2.4 ghz full color video and audio monitor) and I've been very happy with it. It allows us to see him while in his room and we can even hear him snoring. It runs on both battery and electricity which is good for power outages (we have them frequently). It has a built in temperature gauge which monitors the room's temperature and even plays 4 different lullabies if you want. I got it from Walmart for $129 which I thought was reasonable given the various amenities. It also allows for up to 4 cameras, although the additional cameras are a bit pricey ($139 each).
I thought I would share this info in case anyone is looking for something like this. It only has 1 parental unit.
You are such a wonderful caretaker to your hubby. You're forever caring for his needs and so tentative to his safety. You are an admiration to all us as you continue to march down this journey with conviction, with love, and with endless sacrifice.
Your post is of much value. Although I don't need a monitor, as yet, but I will definitely keep this in mind for the future.
I hope that now hubby is home back he will begin to make the transition. May this week be easier on you!
Thanks lullie....I have a lot of guilt about his broken knee even though I know I couldn't have prevented it. If only I could have, then we wouldn't be going through this difficult time and transition.
Please don't hold yourself responsible. I know that that would be normal, but you have gone over and board to ensure his safety. With this disease, we both know, that we can not predict what they are capable. They are like small children that get into trouble. Even the very best meaning diligent parents can not prevent accidents with their children. Our hubbys are now small children...always seeking...always adventuring with no awareness of consequences nor danger. Accidents happen.....your home incident was an accident: What occurred AFTER the accident was negligence. The care facility is who guilty rests on!
Not one member here would not concur with me about your devotion and care skills. You are a role model...one that has been though so very much and presses on under the most difficult circumstances. At the risk of sounding like a Pollyanna, LFL, in my heart of hearts I truly believe the he will improve under you care.
Hang on...press on...and most of all don't beat yourself up!