My husband has been in-and-out of emergency rooms geriatric units for the past 8 months, Finally last Tuesday he was Put in a veteran home, 45 minutes from me I was going to see him everyday from 5 to 9:00 p.m. I would dance with him listen to music exercise go outside he needs the 1 to 1, But she doesn't get their, Everyone sits and watches TV he doesn't like TV. They told me today I shouldn't come and see him for a couple days maybe a week. We've been together for 50 years met in the 9th grade