I just saw your post on the other thread, http://thealzheimerspouse.com/vanillaforum/comments.php?DiscussionID=910&page=1#Item_29 ........... and thought it would be nice to have an offical welcome aboard thread for you. Welcome to the forum family specialk. I just wanted to say too, from your other posting.....I have never felt men were more likely to leave their wives in illness. My husband was my champion for 4 years of treatment. Never once even considered leaving me. Welcome and keep posting~Nikki