Sending you my sympathy, Denny*. I don't know how you made it through fourteen years, you deserve a medal not a star! Hope that you will be surrounded by love and kindness in the days ahead. cassie*
I'm sorry for your loss. Fourteen years speaks volumes. I hope that in time the truth of what you did helps you to find a path to a fuller life again for yourself. It's what all our partners would have hoped for.