Everyone has a favorite that works for their spouse. I've tried Tena and Tranquility both of which many spouses (spice) here have had very good results with but not us. In addition I've tried regular Depends, Walmart brand (Assurance), the local grocery store brand and some others. Right now what works the best for my husband who is doubly incontinent now (w/I the last 3 months) is the Depends Real Fit for men briefs. They are very absorbent and if he urinates in them at night they seem to control the urine better without leaks. So far they seem to contain the bowel movements but we are very diligent in monitoring both urine/fecal incontinence.
Good luck finding one that works for your husband.
My husband is urinary incontinent and Tena For men work for him during the day. At night his wears abena abri-forms. Even then he still sometimes leaks at night. He sleeps on a washable pad.