Vickie is going through a very difficult time, as her Stu nears the end. Today is her birthday, and I am sure she is not focussing on celebrating the occasion, but it would be nice for all of us to send our good wishes and let her know we are thinking of her.
best wishes and happy birthday Vickie!! sending warm hugs and know we are here holding your hands as you see your dear Stu to a better place. (((Vickie)))
Happy Birthday Vickie!!! Please know we are all here for you and sending big, warms hugs as you tend to your precious Stu. You both are in my thoughts and prayers.
You've done quite enough over the years not to have all your future birthdays spoilt. He was released from both of your sufferings and it's not fair to you that it's on this day. My birthday wish to you is that over the many birthdays to come the day brings peace.
Vickie: This can't be a happy birthday. Perhaps Stu asked God to take him today and release the both of you from the clutches of AD as his last gift to you. Love and hugs.
A big thank you to all for the birthday wishes. I did miss getting some kind of card from DH. The last few years he picked it out and sometimes it was a Christmas card, thank you card, or just a card-card - but it always said "to my wife" and "I love you".
I am doing fine but I don't know what I'd do with Joang, this site and my caregiving warriors here.