.....Sometimes when I'm in a restaurant or whatever, I notice a happy couple who remind me of my bygone days, And I feel the need to give the guy this little note. I always slip it to him on my way out so that I'm out the door before he can read it...........................................
.....Yes, I'm an old man, older than dirt. And my behavior may seem strange, but I can't help it because that's just the way I am. .....I think you and your pretty wife are at a stage in your life where I once was. And every time I see a couple such as you, it brings back memories of long ago, and I feel the need to share a few words with you. I carry these little notes for that purpose. .....My Dear Wife left me a year ago, after a ten year battle with vascular dementia and during the sorrow and sadness of that experience, the one thought that was always on my mind was that I did not express my love for her as often as I could have while she was still able to think and understand. As I think back on it now....that is my one regret and it will always be with me. I wish so much that I could have her back with me one last time so I could give her a hug and tell her how much I love her. One never knows the value of what he has until he looses it. .....I just wanted to tell you this so maybe you can avoid ending up like me.
.....I may be a bit crazy for taking up space on Joan's site with storys such as this. ..........................................................................GeorgieBoy
George, I like your idea, and the note is wonderful and sure to inspire some people. But I hope you are not too hard on yourself or feeling guilty for not expressing your feelings to your lovely wife while she was well....I think that she knew very well how you felt, even though her mind was not at its best...she could sense it in the way you cared for her, attending to her needs. She knew you loved her.
I agree with bella - she KNEW you loved her - you took good care of her and she knew that too. While I made it a point to tell my husband that I loved him every night, I can't remember the last time he was able to say it to me. Others said his love for me was in his eyes - the way he looked at me.
I love your note and I think it is a great thing to do - to remind others while they have time.