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    • CommentAuthoryhouniey
    • CommentTimeJul 10th 2013
     
    It is so peaceful,just the dog and me.Sonny is very happy in the NH. And I am more than happy living alone. Maybe that doesn't sound like I care, but after over 10 yrs, as a 24/7 cargiver I feel I deserve a life. If I can't sleep. I can get up and use the computer,dog doesn't complain,she doesn't mind if I talk on the phone,my life is my own now.I actually can go up and dpwn every aisle in the supermarket instead of hurrying to get home($20.an hr. for a sitter makes you hurry).I no longer have to take pain meds fo my fibromyolgia since I don't have all the stress. If you place your LO don't worry, they WILL adjust.
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    yhouniey, so good to hear you are doing so well! Give the rest of us hope. I've been at it 10 plus years, 24/7. It takes its toll on us. Keep up the good work with getting your life back!
    • CommentAuthordivvi*
    • CommentTimeJul 10th 2013 edited
     
    that's excellent news to hear you are so at peace. yes the journey takes a lot of toll on all of us and them. best wishes! enjoy roaming those grocery isles in quiet.:)
    • CommentAuthorLeigh
    • CommentTimeJul 10th 2013
     
    Smiles......
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    Good news...and so nice to hear the relief in your voice...may healing be swift for you so you can enjoy your LO when you go to visit.
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      CommentAuthorNikki
    • CommentTimeJul 10th 2013
     
    yhouniey, I am happy for you both, excellent news!
    • CommentAuthorbqd*
    • CommentTimeJul 10th 2013
     
    yhouniey, I am so happy for you and your LO!
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    That's good news yhouniey,
    Enjoy your time now!
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    yhouniey, now all the times with your sweetie can be quality time!
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    yhouniey--Great ! it is important to have posts like this, it may help some others who suffer from guilt after they place their LO's. My experience was like yours, and my reflux disappeared and I was able to stop the med I was taking for it. Shows what constant stress causes.
    • CommentAuthorAmber
    • CommentTimeJul 11th 2013
     
    yhouniey - that's great to hear you are doing so well.
    • CommentAuthorabby* 6/12
    • CommentTimeJul 11th 2013
     
    yhouniey,

    While home, husband could not stand the sound of the phone and no matter what I tried in terms of volume, tones, musical rings, etc.- he would rage. So the phones went to flash only. He also thought I talked too much so I pretty much stopped talking if he was where he would hear me.

    The first day he was away from here (although it was hospitalization), I knew from previous hospitalizations that the phone calls would be non-stop, and also had it in my mind set that I would have to speak very, very quietly. It was probably only a matter of seconds, if that, but it struck me that I could set the phones to ring, and I could speak as I chose.

    I am happy that you have found peace. For me, I think I had forgotten what some of it was like.

    Wishing you the best.
    • CommentAuthorLFL
    • CommentTimeJul 11th 2013
     
    Glad you've found peace too and sonny is happy. after 10 years of caregiving, you deserve it.
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    God please you. Please enjoy the peace. Sonny is at peace and you should be too.