Today is hubby's 78th birthday & I don't think he even realizes it! I wished him Happy Birthday this morning & he said "oh is it today?" :) He of course went to the calender & checked the date (he is obsessed with the calender & his wrist watch!). I asked him if he could tell me how old he is - he said "let's see, i was born in 1935, so I think I'm 78". I was floored that he got it right & without much thought! At supper, our son was here (having a bigger dinner tomorrow) & hubs seemed to have a burr under his saddle! Anything I said, he would make a face at me!! It actually struck me kind of funny - for a while. Then it got pretty stale! One more thing - not on the subject of "faces"! I have found several "encouragement" sites on the internet. I'm big on quotations & sayings & I have found some rather fitting ones (for me at least) on facebook, some on Pinterest. I've created a secret board on my Pinterest page just for those . When I need a quick, visual boost, I can click on those, breathe deeply & absorb some encouraging words & beauty. Just another idea to help me cope.
Yes, Charlotte, I know I was rather hurt when I turned 70 & he had no idea, even after being reminded by the kids! My last birthday (at Christmas) it didn't bother me so much. I know he would have at least wished me a happy birthday if he had been able to remember it.
Mine husband is obsessed with looking at his wristwatch also. When riding in the car he will check it almost ever 2 minutes (short term memory). Mine husband remembers HIS birthday but forgets our anniversary, my birthday, and is so very wrapped up in his own world. He's very selfish and self-centered. Guess this comes with the territory of FTD. :(