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    • CommentAuthorMim
    • CommentTimeFeb 23rd 2013
     
    Today is hubby's 78th birthday & I don't think he even realizes it! I wished him Happy Birthday this morning & he said "oh is it today?" :) He of course went to the calender & checked the date (he is obsessed with the calender & his wrist watch!). I asked him if he could tell me how old he is - he said "let's see, i was born in 1935, so I think I'm 78". I was floored that he got it right & without much thought!
    At supper, our son was here (having a bigger dinner tomorrow) & hubs seemed to have a burr under his saddle! Anything I said, he would make a face at me!! It actually struck me kind of funny - for a while. Then it got pretty stale!
    One more thing - not on the subject of "faces"! I have found several "encouragement" sites on the internet. I'm big on quotations & sayings & I have found some rather fitting ones (for me at least) on facebook, some on Pinterest. I've created a secret board on my Pinterest page just for those . When I need a quick, visual boost, I can click on those, breathe deeply & absorb some encouraging words & beauty. Just another idea to help me cope.
    • CommentAuthorCharlotte
    • CommentTimeFeb 23rd 2013
     
    Sounds like you are finding a way to cope Mim. That is good.

    As for birthdays most of our spouses don't remember theirs or ours.
    • CommentAuthorMim
    • CommentTimeFeb 23rd 2013
     
    Yes, Charlotte, I know I was rather hurt when I turned 70 & he had no idea, even after being reminded by the kids! My last birthday (at Christmas) it didn't bother me so much. I know he would have at least wished me a happy birthday if he had been able to remember it.
    • CommentAuthorlulliebird
    • CommentTimeFeb 26th 2013
     
    Mine husband is obsessed with looking at his wristwatch also. When riding in the car he will check it almost ever 2 minutes (short term memory). Mine husband remembers HIS birthday but forgets our anniversary, my birthday, and is so very wrapped up in his own world. He's very selfish and self-centered. Guess this comes with the territory of FTD. :(