Went down to get coffee at 6 a.m., came back upstairs and DH was in the bathroom shaving - hasn't shaved himself in over a year. Then said he was going to take a shower - doesn't shower unless I tell him it's shower day, then I have to help him and he won't shampoo his hair. I did get the water going, he got in - and asked for SHAMPOO! He shampooed his hair, did a good job showering, got out and asked if I'd dry his back. I could not believe what I was seeing. I usually have to help him get dressed, but today I put them on the bed and left the room. He got dressed by himself, including socks and shoes! Two days ago his very good friend died and I told him. He hasn't mentioned it until this morning, asked when his funeral is. Went for a short ride after breakfast and he recogized things he has not in a couple of years! Came home and he wanted to watch some basketball. So he's watching a game - never asks to do that.
What is going on?? I don't know and I don't care - just hope it continues for today, at least!
Vickie, what a gift...so happy you both are having a good day. We've had a few moments of brillance and I am so very grateful to have a glimpse of who my dh was. I always cherish those moments knowing they will most likely not last very long and just enjoy the time he is his old self. I do have to say that when he returns to his dementia self I am always sad because I feel like I lost him again..but still grateful.
I'm happy for your good day Vickie. You're a great lady and a time of seeing all this and enjoying his own good day is wonderful. I do think the mind does form new synapses with AD. That's not stopped because of it. Perhaps the death of his friend formed new associations which is what synapses do.
Amazing, Vickie! It blows my mind when this happens! In my case, it happens less and less, but DO treasure your day and enjoy the gift you've been given. How Wonderful!!
Vickie--I never experienced what you're describing, but it must be a joy. So happy for you. I still consider it a daily miracle that my husband recognizes me, and responds appropriately when I say I love him, and is affectionate. Even if it ends, I will be so grateful that it has lasted this long.
It is still pretty good! Has not asked so many repetitive questions; shaves, showers, washes his hair! Very laid back and calm. I can take this - for as long as it lasts.
As expected, the wonders ceased the last couple of days. He refused to go to DC; but wanted to keep "doing something". Pretty hyper. Today, he regressed back to his mom and dad, who divorced when he was around 20. Didn't know they had died (many years ago). Wanted - again - to call my son. Finally took him to the memorial garden, but by the time we got home, he had forgotten it and it started again. Diversion didn't work too well today. But, at least he is in bed now, and hopefully will stay down for the night! I got a few days reprieve anyway!
Oh Vickie, I'm sure in your heart of hearts you knew that this was just temporary & it wouldn't last, BUT I know that you were hoping that it would have lasted a while longer & we were ALL hoping that for you. Thank you for sharing your happy time with us. Remember we are here for you. (((HUGS)))
times like these Vickie that we do learn to enjoy and recognize when we have it good dont we? hoping you get another reprieve soon. do th best with what you have now. divvi