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    • CommentAuthorBrooke*
    • CommentTimeMay 27th 2012 edited
     
    My DH will not be transferred to a NH after all. He is inpatient Hospice and has begun to die. I am numb and feel so alone. His adult children did not appear today.
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    This is a hard process. I'm sorry to hear, and wish you strength.
    • CommentAuthorabby* 6/12
    • CommentTimeMay 27th 2012
     
    Oh, Brooke,

    I am just beginning to navigate the hospice system. Is your DH in a hospital unit dedicated to hospice?

    I'm so sorry. I read a post from you recently where you said you were not ready to talk about it. I hope you and he are receiving emotional and spiritual support.

    Sending you best wishes for peace and comfort.
    • CommentAuthorElaineH
    • CommentTimeMay 27th 2012
     
    Brooke, my thoughts & prayers will be with you at this difficult time. I also wish you peace & comfort.
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    Brooke I am so sorry this is happening so quickly. We think we are ready and actually wish it was over-but it still hurts terribly. I wish you peace.
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      CommentAuthormary75*
    • CommentTimeMay 27th 2012
     
    Dear Brooke, I remember the many times you reached out to me when I needed it. Here's my hand and much love.
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    and my hand too Brooke. My prayers go up for you, for strength and love.
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      CommentAuthorBama* 2/12
    • CommentTimeMay 27th 2012
     
    (((Hugs)))
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      CommentAuthorJudithKB*
    • CommentTimeMay 27th 2012
     
    So many seem to be receiving the same news as you or received it earlier this year. My heart goes out to
    all of you and especially you who must be in such confusion and stress right now.. Hugs Hugs...keep in touch and know we are here for you and may you find the strength you will need to face this time
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    Brooke, sad news...my thoughts & prayers will be with you at this difficult time. I also wish you peace & comfort.
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    Brooke, I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you can find some strength and comfort and most importantly, peace. We are here for you.
    • CommentAuthorLFL
    • CommentTimeMay 28th 2012
     
    Brooke, I am so sorry to hear your sad news and know how difficult the days ahead will be. I will keep you both in my prayers and I too offer my hand....
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      CommentAuthordeb112958
    • CommentTimeMay 28th 2012
     
    Brooke, I'm sorry to hear this. (((hugs))) to you.
    • CommentAuthorBrooke*
    • CommentTimeMay 28th 2012
     
    Thank you, all.
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    I am so sorry to hear this Brooke,,,,,, on one hand it is going to be a blessing for both you and your dh, on the other hand it will be horrible for you. I don't know what to say except I am praying for you to find peace and take care of yourself during this difficult time.
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    Brooke
    hugs and prayers coming your way.
    • CommentAuthorms. magic
    • CommentTimeMay 29th 2012
     
    Brooke, I pray that you have the strength to get through this very difficult time.
    ((HUGS))
    • CommentAuthordonna L
    • CommentTimeMay 29th 2012
     
    prayers for you during this time
    • CommentAuthorRosiek
    • CommentTimeMay 29th 2012
     
    Brooke, I can't imagine how you are feeling, but I'm so sorry. I will be keeping you in my prayers as well as the adult children.
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    Brooke, my prayers are with you that will receive peace and rest. My prayers for your DH are that he will have a quiet and peaceful passing. Do not worry about the kids, just cherish the time you have with him and take care of yourself.
    • CommentAuthordivvi*
    • CommentTimeMay 30th 2012
     
    prayers for you and yours brooke, may it be a peaceful passing when the time comes
    • CommentAuthorOcallie36
    • CommentTimeMay 30th 2012
     
    Brooke, We never even made it to hospice. My heart does go out to you. You only need to be strong for a little while longer. We can do it.
    Accept hugs and prayers.
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    Brooke, I am so sorry. It is such a difficult time and I wish you strength.
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      CommentAuthorNikki
    • CommentTimeMay 31st 2012
     
    Brooke, you must be just shocked.. I can't imagine. My heart and thoughts are with you... so so sorry.... ((hugs))
    • CommentAuthordeb42657
    • CommentTimeJun 2nd 2012
     
    I am so sorry to hear this! Take all the help that you can get and in the meantime please accept this {{{{hug}}}} from me.
    • CommentAuthorZibby*
    • CommentTimeJun 2nd 2012
     
    Hugs, and prayers for your peace and comfort as you navigate these last days.
    • CommentAuthorBrooke*
    • CommentTimeJun 2nd 2012
     
    My beloved husband passed away early this morning. I am surprised and comforted that memories of him as he was before AD are already flooding back. Thank you, friends for your prayers and words of support. I appreciate them more than you may know. A funeral tomorrow then a star beside my name.
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    Thank you for letting us know Brooke, and I am so comforted to hear that you are having good memories of him. I pray for peace and healing for you.
    • CommentAuthorWolf
    • CommentTimeJun 2nd 2012
     
    My deepest sympathies Brooke. My wife has not passed away though she is in such a poor state. My time is filled with the memories and I believe in their truth.
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      CommentAuthorBama* 2/12
    • CommentTimeJun 2nd 2012
     
    I am so sorry Brooke and I am glad you are beginning to remember the good memories.
    • CommentAuthorCharlotte
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    sorry Brooke but happy to hear you can remember the good hb so soon. Hugs and prayers for you.
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    I'm sorry Brooke, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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    I am so sorry, Brooke. Glad you can remember the good times! Arms around you.
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    Dear Brooke I am sorry for all your pain. I'm glad that you, both, can now find peace.
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    I'm so sorry.
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    I am so sorry Brooke. Sending you strength for the days to come.
    • CommentAuthorElaineH
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    Brooke, my deepest sympathy to you. So glad that you can remember him as he was before.
    • CommentAuthorWeejun*
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    Deepest sympathy Brooke, as we begin our widowhood together. Blessings to you and your family.
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    I am so sorry ((((Hugs))))
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    So sorry to read this....glad you have happy memories to help you through this difficult time.
    • CommentAuthorLori,RN
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing you peace and comfort for the future.
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      CommentAuthormary75*
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    Dear Brooke, sending you my condolences and love.
    • CommentAuthorms. magic
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    Joining everyone in sending my condolences for your loss.
    I am glad the good memories came flooding back to you.
    ((HUGS))
    • CommentAuthorscs
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    With those good memories are you feeling peace knowing that you were there for him to the very end? What blessings. Now take care of yourself.
    • CommentAuthorOcallie36
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    Bless you. So many losses lately. We are all in this together. Deepest sympathy to you Brooke
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    Brooke, I am so sorry for your loss. I am so glad your good memories came back how wonderful to remember what was so special. Sincere condolences to you.
    • CommentAuthorLFL
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    Brooke, my deepest sympathies for the loss of your beloved husband. I am glad the good memories are back and you are able to embrace the man you fell in love with.
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      CommentAuthorCarolyn*
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    Very sorry for your loss, Brooke
    • CommentAuthorZibby*
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    Glad for you that the "last days" weren't too many. More hugs and wishes for peace.
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      CommentAuthordeb112958
    • CommentTimeJun 3rd 2012
     
    My condolences to you, Brooke. So very sorry.