I brought my husbands urn to NY, to be buried in the family plot. Yesterday was the day and I haven't stopped crying since. I've been waiting for it to hit me and now it has. I felt like I still had him when I had the urn. Now he is really gone. It's so hard to really say goodbye. I'll always have the memories of the love affair of a lifetime.
I can't imagine how painful this was for you.... I hope through the crying and the pain you have brief moments to remember and reflect on your "love affair of a lifetime" You remain in my thoughts and prayers ((Ocallie))
Ocallie, I can't imagine how hard that would be. I still have Gord's urn on my dresser. I say good morning to him and good night. Crazy? I don't care. When my time comes, the boys can put us together in a niche. I did however put him in the closet when someone was coming to put a new TV service in and had to go into my bedroom.
I feel so sad for what you are going thru Ocallie but I know we have to go thru this to begin the healing process...... I am praying for you. Take care......
Ocallie, my condolences. Cherish the memories and be brave enough to experience this new beginning. Jang, I had all our funeral expenses paid for; but as that time draws near, I find that I want to have him cremated and bring him home with me. You're not crazy. Gord is where he belongs if that is what you want (but not in the closet).