Today was one of those days when I just didn't feel much like a good caregiver. The day started when my husband had a classic Alzheimer moment and accused me of only thinking of myself and putting his needs last. As you can imagine, that didn't go over well, and I completely lost my cool. The day ended with my father yelling at me in the doctor's waiting room because I wouldn't let him drink plain water - I made him drink his thickened liquid so he wouldn't choke.
Congratulations Joan! Thank you so much for all you do for us. Loved seeing the photos of you and Sid. Hang in there and hope tomorrow is a better day for you!
I want to add my congratulations also. You are my caregiver through this message board. What would I do without it as there is no support group in my little town that relates only to spouses. I was a true novice when I finally realized that dh really did have az. and not just confusion. Thanks again and many congratulations you are truly deserving.
Many of us wouldn't have made it through without Joan's place. I want to add my congratulations as well!!! Hang in there, Joan! We're behind you. Thank you again for giving us this wonderful place to come and ask questions, get answers, vent, and make friends who understand us.
joan, so nice to see you get the deserving attention. indeed your opening this website for the sole purpose of all spouses has been a great help and release for those of us dealing with dementia. thank you for all you do. divvi