Already three times today DH has gone on about working in the yard, the woman across the street telling him what he is supposed to do in the yard, he has supervised "them" cutting the grass. Every night and every morning he asks me what he has to do outside. I am about ready to SCREAM. I will be looking at three more ALF's this week, I may cancel one of them because they don't have an Alz facility and I don't want him to get settled in one place and have to move him later. He still wants to go, his words "get away from here". Perhaps he will stop thinking he has to work outside if he is in another enviroment. He can't make a cup of instant coffee half the time. He has put coffee in the electric kettle, puts coffee in his cup and pours Coffee Mate in and no water. He also can't get the cover off of a throw away razor or cannot change the razor in his Gillette. He also has problems with urine in his underpants. I have kept some underwear from when he had his prostate out so he will be wearing a pair of them tonight when he goes to bed.

That's my gripes done for today. Wish me luck on finding a good ALF.

Thanks Vickie, DH has gone on since we moved here 2 years ago in August about his hallucinations and paranoia but they are over the top now. More than I can take!