I was not the person who called you but did post to your thread "Hi, my husband has Alzheimers".
While I am okay when on the internet, I often find it hard to talk on the phone because h is always here.
I use my mobile and sometimes just drive around the corner or go to the closest parking lot to make some calls. It is necessary that h does not know this. Actually, I think he does not even remember my cell #.
I'm not in a position to call you but I hope someone here can. I hope you can post. Many, if not most of us know what it is like to have to curtail what might usually be normal activities because of (spouse's) AD.