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    • CommentAuthorSherizeee
    • CommentTimeJan 22nd 2012
     
    Sheri wonders what "Bob" would say, if his voice was all his own.

    Would he say "Sheri when you leave the room... I feel all alone".

    Would he say " I am sorry, for the things I pile around"

    I am sorry for the things I lose, like the gift you never found"

    Would he say "thank you", for taking care of the family

    Would he say "your eyes look tired', and wipe the tears he see's?

    Would he know that open arms, are an invitation to hold her tight

    Would he know she needs him in the darkest part of night.

    Would he say he loves her like the day that they were wed

    Would one look be enough to feel the love even with words unsaid

    Sheri wonders what would Bob say if his voice was all his own

    But Bob's voice is a whisper...and Sheri feels... alone.
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    Well said, Sheri. I think I felt almost as alone when Gord was here as I do now that he is gone.
    • CommentAuthorSherizeee
    • CommentTimeJan 22nd 2012
     
    I am sorry i see I posted this before...I apologize. I hope this doesn't mean its rubbing off!
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    It's still beautiful, Sherizeee! God bless.
    • CommentAuthorgrendelsma
    • CommentTimeJan 22nd 2012
     
    Sheri, You bring out the compassionate side. It is a good reminder....I was not feeling compassionate this weekend after not being able to get the snowthrower started still, and breaking two snow shovels, working, coming home and my dh who has been sitting in his chair watching tv for two days says oh, I see blueberries are available again...I would like some for my breakfast.......grrrr. He walks most days in Wal-Mart where there is no snow or the like...He could pick them up but never thinks. Then he asked me to get his rx for him before work so I went early and I got it and when I got home he said did you get my rx? Yes I said and he says he was there and they said you picked it up. I told you I was going to get it and he sort of hems and haws and says I thought you forgot. He doesn't seem to show the love just the demands and yep I feel all alone sometimes too.
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    grendelsma I see your dh stills gets around on his own. I find myself being surprised here when I read that some still drive too. It seems to happen so fast.

    Now that he is in a more declined phase, I find myself more patient with him as he cannot help it. There is no way he can drive now, though I can still leave him alone for very brief periods.

    My sadness has gone in to a very lonely place too, for me and him.

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