There have been so many deaths lately. Each time we are saddened at the loss but also happy that us and them are free of the bonds of AD. Always thinking about our departed loved ones being in a better place. But are they really better?
When my 92 y/o grandmother died, mom had a dream where she came to say good bye and that things were OK. All very vivid and remembered.
I was just wondering it anybody ever experienced a 'communication' from their departed loved one saying that yes their abilities have been restored and perhaps offering a thank you for all you have done. . . . It would be very comforting.
It is a bit of a tricky subject but its what you believe in I reckon,my eldest daughter sees departed love ones and others a lot ,she doesnt go to Spiritualist churches or anything she just sees them and some of them are people she doesn't know either. One cousin of mine she has seen at my place a few times ,We were very close I cared for him when he was ill .Daughter says he looks just like he was before he was ill and always says to her, give my love to your Mother and take care of her.She has also seen my Mother (her g/mother)Actually she has said she wished it would all go away and doesnt like to tell people in case they think she is not right in her head ,if this post is inappropriate please delete
This was not a dream it really happened, I was at church one Sunday and the woman who was up doing the readings, who had lost her husband suddenly. I saw for just an instant her husband standing behind her with his hand on her shoulder. Clear as if he was there. I have never told anyone. They were not people who I was close with. It was just I looked up and there he was. I blinked and he was gone.
Also not to hurt anyone but I also use to dream about my dog. He was deaf, blind and lame when he died. I missed him so. And I did not want another dog, after he died. One night when I was dreaming about him, he was walking just fine and walked across a bridge and down the other side of the river, looked back at me and wagged his tail like it was going to be ok to let go. I never dreamed of him again. And I did get another dog.
I think it is more than something in our head. I believe it is real, we are contacted by ones who have crossed over. But that is just me.
I'll never forget my DW Dad was in a NH, in the middle of the night DW wakes me up and tells me her Dad has passed on. We get a call in the morning from the NH to inform us.
Yes, I have had this happen twice. My father years after his death came and stood at the foot of my bed. He had a very pleasant look on his face and that was that.
Years later after my brother died he came and stood at the side of my bed dressed in a navy blue suit and he looked so happy. It was like he was there to tell me he was doing ok and was happy. He had been so unhappy many years after his oldest son was burned to death in a fire It gave me such peace.
i also have various relatives who have said the deceased presented themselves to them to give a 'final' goodbye, and that they felt very peaceful and comforted after.
I have never seen people that have passed but: previous husband died who always wore Old Spice after shave. Soon after his death the air was filled with that frangrance. I went into bathroom to make sure bottle had not spilled. No broken or spilled bottles. Years later I again smelled frangrance and search again only to find the bag in kitchen garbage was one of those scented bags! Never could figure out the first occurance however. Weird?