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    • CommentAuthorPaula M*
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    Hello

    The home just called me and they told me they went into dh room and he was not breathing. What a way to tell me he's gone
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    OMG..Paula...my heart goes out to you......I am fedexing hugs and encouragement to you right now....
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    Oh, my Paula. I can't remember his history but what a shock. I am so sorry. ((((HUGS)))))
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    Oh, Paula, my heart is breaking for you. Prayers for you during this very difficult time. We are all with you to hold you up and we'll be here for you. Peace to you. Lots of hugs, too.
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      CommentAuthordeb112958
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    Oh, Paula. I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.
    • CommentAuthordivvi*
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    paula what a shocking way to learn this sad news. hugs.
    divvi
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    Paula, Please accept my deepest sympathy on your loss. I am sorry the NH was so insensitive. Please know you and in my thoughts & prayers.
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    Dear Paula--so sorry you had to get the news that way.
    • CommentAuthorLori,RN
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    Paula, so sorry to hear about your husband. Sending you hugs and sympathy.
    • CommentAuthorWeejun*
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    Paula, deepest sympathy on the loss of your DH.
    • CommentAuthorElaineH
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    Paula, my thoughts & prayers are with you.
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    Paula,

    I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure your dh is at peace now and I hope and pray you will find peace also.
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    Paula I am so sorry.
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    Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry and sorry they didn't convey the message a bit more gently. Had news to receive no matter what I guess.
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    Paula, I am so sorry for your loss. At last he is at peace.
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    Oh Paula I am so sorry not only for your terrible heartbreaking loss but for the heartless way in which you were informed...What a terrible week for you... sending hugs your way..I wish you peace and comfort...
    Mimi
    • CommentAuthorterry*
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    dear Paula, I am so sorry for your loss and that you had to endure such a shocking announcement. you've had such an emotional time of it lately. i hope you are receiving the support you deserve.
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      CommentAuthorNikki
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    Oh Paula!!! I am so very sorry...... I never know what to write and I feel rather helpless. You were having such a difficult time with Al's placement, and now this heartbreaking loss. I am concerned about you and how you are coping dear one. I just send you an email, if you need to talk, you can call me too. Much love and lots and lots of ((hugs)) ♥ ♥ ♥
    • CommentAuthorJanet
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    Paula, I am so sorry.
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    Paula, please accept my heartfelt sympathy in your loss. I am sending lots of prayers and ((hugs)) your way.
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    Paula, I am so sorry to hear this and please remember, like the rest of us, you didn't know what was happening, you just felt you were in a war and it was natural to defend yourself. I long ago forgave myself for the mistakes I made--not because I was mean or uncaring, it's thst everything about AD is so counterintutive, what else can we do? My DH went the same way in a care facility and I was in the next room. He simply stopped breathing. What a dastardly disease! I'm so sorry.
    • CommentAuthorRosieuk
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    So sorry Paula to hear you lost your DH and to be told in such an insensitive way ,my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family , God Bless
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    my sympathy for the loss of your husband, but now peace is his and praying for peace for you. Please forgive those that don't have compassion for the living,,,,, we love you and are here when you need us...... take care in the coming days.....
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      CommentAuthorNikki
    • CommentTimeAug 5th 2011
     
    Paula, it was wonderful to talk with you this evening (well morning for me :)

    Please do come back..... share with us and let us help you through this. Please please please do not worry about depressing us.... the whole reason we are here is to help support each other. We truly do care and want to help you. call any time my friend ..,keeping you deep in my heart, thoughts and prayers ♥
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    Paula, please accept my deepest sympathy on the death of your wonderful husband. I can only imagine how shocked you are. I have never been able to find the right words to say to comfort someone at this time, but know that you have done the best you could do and now it is time to take care of yourself.
    • CommentAuthorandy*
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    Paula, so sorry for your loss. May knowing all your "family" here at Joan's place are thinking of you and sending love and prayers your way encourage you in the difficult days ahead.
    • CommentAuthorJean21*
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    Paula, I am so sorry you have lost your husband. I am also sorry for the insensitive you were informed of his passing. Just know you did your abosolute best caring for him and find peace in happier memories. God Bless.
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    Paula, I am so sorry. Isn't it wonderful that you exchanged words of love a while ago.
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    Oh my dear Paula, I am so sorry. Please know I am thinking of you and sending you hugs. I wish I could say something to make things better for you. Just know we are here if you need to talk to someone.
    • CommentAuthorZibby*
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    May peace and comfort be yours. You served to the best of your ability; that's all any of us on this journey can do.
    • CommentAuthorlee012
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    Paula M,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless!

    lee012
    • CommentAuthorAdmin
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    Paula,

    I am so sorry. Please accept my deepest condolences.

    joang
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    Paula, I amj so, so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family during this hard time.
    • CommentAuthorphil4:13*
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    Sorry for your loss Paula. NH can be very insensitive. Learned of my Father's passing in a similar way. You have a heartfelt sympathy. (((hugs)))
    • CommentAuthornellie
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    Paula, so sorry for the way you found out about your DH passing. Praying that God gives you strength as you go through these days.
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    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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    So very sorry to hear about the loss of your DH, Paula. Please stay in touch with all of us and let us know how you are doing.
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      CommentAuthorJudithKB*
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    So sorry that you had to learn the sad truth via phone call...May you dh rest in peace and may
    comfort be with you during this difficult time.
    • CommentAuthordeb42657
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    Paula, I wish that you would have been able to hear the news a little bit better than you did but now Al is resting and now please take care of yourself. Hugs and kisses from me to you and your family!
    • CommentAuthorDianeT*
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    What a terrible way to hear the news of our loss. I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.
    • CommentAuthorBev*
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    Paula, I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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    Paula, so sorry for your loss. It is always difficult to hear, but you would have thought they could have found better words.
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    Paula, so sorry for your loss and the way you had to hear about it. I'm not sure how, but surely it could have been related to you in a little kinder way.
    • CommentAuthorcarosi*
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    So sorry for your loss, Paula. Peace be with you and your family.
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    Dear Paula, I'm so sorry...and I'm even more sorry about the insensitive way you were informed. Surely, in time, they will hear more about that when you're past these immediate days. A phone call? Bless your sweet heart. You are in my prayers.
    Nancy B*
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      CommentAuthorCarolyn*
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    Paula, I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. Please stay with us.
    • CommentAuthorWolf
    • CommentTimeAug 6th 2011
     
    I too am sorry to hear of your loss.
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    Dear Paula

    So sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers.
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    Such heartbreaking news. I'm so sorry for your loss. Peace be with you now.
    • CommentAuthorBrooke*
    • CommentTimeAug 7th 2011
     
    Paula, my deepest sympathy to you. I am so sorry that you had to learn of your loss in such a heartless way. We are all with you in spirit.