It has come to my attention that our member, Former Soulmate, lost her husband, Bud, on Sunday afternoon.
Our deepest condolences to her and her family.
Just a reminder as to how fast things can progress. He was up and around a year ago. Went into a facility about 4 months ago. Broke his collarbone. Developed pneumonia while recovering from surgery, and died.
Soulmate, indeed such a loss and so quickly friend. we just never know when things will spiral out of control. thinking of you on this sad occasion. hugs, divvi
Soulmate, I am very sorry to hear about your loss and I am sure that it is very difficult right now but I am sending you thoughts and hugs from me {{{{hug}}}}
former soulmate--- You saw Bud through with dignity and love. He is safe and well now,and friends and family are with you to celebrate him. Peace be with you. Hugs, Carosi
Thank you for your kind comments. On April 5th Bud was able to walk with me around the back patio/yard of his assisted living facility. He laughed, was able to enjoy photos, and could read name tags. He had a good afternoon. However, looking back I can see the warning signs. He was unsteady on his feet, had lost significant weight, was very fragile, and got sick easily. He had lost interest in eating but could be cajoled to eat small bites. He could not swallow pills. They had to be pulverized and mixed with pudding or applesauce. From April 5th until May 8th he truly fell off the cliff. The last week of his life he was constantly agitated and appeared to be in pain. Yes, he developed pneumonia. Yes, he fell and suffered a small collarbone fracture. Yes, he fell again and slightly cracked his hip bone. Yes, he may have had a UTI. I think that 4 days in the hospital set him back a couple of years. At any rate, when he passed, his lungs were clear, his heart was very strong, his kidneys were functioning perfectly, his circulation was good. His breathing simply became very labored on Friday night and he stopped breathing Sunday afternoon. I held his hand, lightly massaged his chest, tried to will him to keep breathing, and told him many stories of his life. A tiny tear appeared in the corner of his eye. He simply stopped breathing. To view his obituary, go to www.RamseyFuneral.com The love of my life is gone. The pain is unimaginable. I truly believed that we had a few years left. And yet, he was clearly starting to suffer. I am thankful that he is at peace. But at what a cost. AD won, once again ........
I am so sorry to hear about the sudden passing of your loved one. My prayer for you is for peace and comfort in this time of loss. Please take time for yourself as you reflect on the good and bad times this disease has taken away. Now your husband is safe, healed, and rejoicing in the beauty of Heaven. Hoping for a peaceful comforting day for you...... Love in Christ,,,,,,
Former soulmate, so sorry to hear of your loss. Sincere condolences. Thank you so much for your account of Bud's passing, I read it breathlessly. I wish you peace and strength.