I had the tables turned on me and I didn't even realize it! The last couple times we were in a restaurant about 20 miles from here we ran into a younger woman that I had worked with. She was with another woman who I thought was a friend or relative. She smiled and waved and answered the usual questions and then they sat down. Same thing the next time. I was mentioning to a friend that I had seen her and she responded that it was really sad that this woman had EOAD and that the woman with her was her aide! You could have knocked me over with a feather! I now realize why people who just meet my DH casually do not realize there is anything wrong with them. I guess my judgement of these people was premature. I hope they forgive me!