DH passed peacefully this morning at 9:19. The doctor wrote, "From complications of old age." He was 91 in December and was conscious and responsive until near the end.
May you be surrounded with peace and comfort. You are an inspiration and beacon to those following the dementia road. Thank you for sharing Eric's writing with us, too. PEACE!
Mary, I am sorry about your loss, no matter how it happens or when it happens it still feels like a loss and I just hope you find peace in knowing that he is not hurting anymore. Hugs and kisses to you and let us know from time to time how you are doing. You have helped so many of us through our own journey!! Thanks!!
Oh Mary, I am so sorry!!!! Please know that you are surrounded by our love! - and that we will come up there and protect you from his ex and children when you give us the word. Hugs and kisses!!!!!
Mary i am so very sorry to hear this news. we can never be prepared although it happens so fast sometimes. know that your family and friends here at joans keep you in our thoughts and prayers and wish you all the best. now your own journey can begin free of Ad. big hugs!! divvi
It's finally over. Now we pray for peace for YOU since he has found his. Your secret agent friends are ready for another covert deployment if that family gives you a hard time. What a blessing you were in his life and what wonderful care you provided for so long. Hugs to you dear friend.
Oh Mary-we think we are ready, and we a glad that they are out of their misery-but it still feels like a kick in the stomach. Now for you I hope it will be a time for peace and healing.
My thoughts are with you and hopes that you will also find some peace for yourself in the months and years ahead after such a long battle. While other's may preen it's clear who truly cared for whom. You have my respect.
Mary, praying for peace in your life and thanks for sharing so much of your journey with us. Eric's writings have given me moments of joy and laughter.
I am so sorry Mary, but I hope you will take comfort in knowing you were a stellar caregiver. It is now time to use the care giving skills on yourself. Prayers for you and your family.
I pray you will be spared my experience with step children. What worked for me was to simply state that all communication, requests and questions had to go through my attorney. NOT ME. In turn, the attorney kept me informed of their threats and she answered them all. After about 8 months, they gave up. I can only imagine what a huge let down you will feel because your entire life has been consumed with his care and his former family for years now. Hang on tight and DO NOT deal with them yourself. This comes from the voice of experience!!!! Love, Nancy B*
Wishing you peace and comfort and strength at this time. We are all here for you. Keep us posted on how you are so we can lift you up when needed most.. Blessings
Mary--Condolences on your loss. Eric was a treasure to you and many others. Take care of yourself. Visit us when you can and let us know how you're doing. Peace be with you.
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Your dear husband has finally been released from the grip of Alzheimer's Disease and has found peace. I hope you will find comfort in that.
Ditto, LFL, above - "LET THE HEALING BEGIN". I know that your life was consumed with his care for so long that you will probably wonder what to do with yourself. Just take time, relive the good times, visit with those you love and who love you. God will heal your broken heart.