I daydream a lot about what things may be like.....later....or if I just had a couple of weeks to myself. But then I come back to the reality that is here and now and know that I would not enjoy a vacation without my DH beside me or really enjoy that evening out knowing he is home. But it is nice to have a "what if" dream life in order to keep my sanity for what we all face every day. Joan - I like your sister :-)