My daughter in law gave me a great book. Desiderata for Cat Lovers. A Guide to Life & Happiness. There is a dog version. Knowing I love Desiderata, and of course cats, it was the perfect gift. Sometimes I read it upon awakinging and it gives me comfort. I have bought 2 for friends. (One for dog lovers, sight unseen.) I bought them from Amazon.com, and I ordered from a seller 98% reviews for about the cost of a birthday card + $3+ shipping. Showed it to 2 women at work. They bought it for their children on ebay, total $5. Please indulge yourself with some absolute joy.