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    • CommentAuthorcs
    • CommentTimeDec 28th 2010
     
    Vickie...my heart is breaking for you. The loss of a child is unthinkable. You and your family are in my thoughts. cs
    • CommentAuthorJean21*
    • CommentTimeDec 28th 2010
     
    I am so glad Vickie that they caught the person that did this terrible thing. I hope it will bring you a little relief. I was thinking of you this morning when I was out shopping and kept saying prayers for you and your DH. Take care and again God Bless.
    • CommentAuthorphil4:13*
    • CommentTimeDec 28th 2010
     
    You will be in our prayers. As if this dx is not enough. No one should outlive their children. God be with you.
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    Vickie, My heart breaks for you. My prayers are going your way. Hang on tight, your plate is so full.
    • CommentAuthordeb42657
    • CommentTimeDec 28th 2010
     
    I can't add anything that has already been said but I want you to know that I feel terrible with you that this happened and I hope that you can feel all the comfort that I am sending.
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    I too will be praying for you and your family, Vickie. I am so sorry for your loss.
    • CommentAuthorehamilton*
    • CommentTimeDec 28th 2010
     
    So very very sorry. I too, am at a loss for words.
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    Vickie, this is just too awful for words. So so sorry. Glad they found the horrible person who did this. {{{{Real Tight Hugs}}}}
    • CommentAuthorMag
    • CommentTimeDec 28th 2010
     
    Dear Vicki, I am so sorry to hear this tragic news. Your name has become familiar to me on the message board. I want you to know that you are in my nightly prayers. I hope you can feel all the thoughts and prayers that are being sent to you. God be with you.
    • CommentAuthornancyt
    • CommentTimeDec 28th 2010
     
    So sorry for this terrible loss. Praying for you and your husband. My the Lord comfort you and sustain you.
    • CommentAuthorsheila1951
    • CommentTimeDec 28th 2010
     
    Oh Dear Vickie, I am so shocked to hear this. My heart hurts for you. We lost a grandson last April in a car accident...can't imagine a murder. I am so so sorry.
    • CommentAuthorWeejun*
    • CommentTimeDec 28th 2010
     
    Vickie, just read the latest newspaper report with picture of your son. What a beautiful child, what a tragic loss. My heart goes out to you.
    • CommentAuthormarygail*
    • CommentTimeDec 29th 2010
     
    i was so shocked to read your post this morning, I am so sorry for your tragic loss of your son and his partner, please know that I am thinking about you and your family, God be with you all
    • CommentAuthorJudy
    • CommentTimeDec 29th 2010
     
    I am just so sorry, Vickie. There are NO words for these things but certainly will be praying for your family and for YOU.
    • CommentAuthorBLN
    • CommentTimeDec 29th 2010
     
    There really are no words. I am so very sorry.
    • CommentAuthorkathi37*
    • CommentTimeDec 29th 2010
     
    As said by everyone else, I'm terribly sad for you and shocked at this dreadful act. Good news the perp was caught, at least.
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      CommentAuthorchris r*
    • CommentTimeDec 29th 2010
     
    Dear Vickie, you are certainly in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you and keep you at this terrible time.
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      CommentAuthorSusan L*
    • CommentTimeDec 29th 2010
     
    Oh Dear Lord Vickie, my heart skipped a beat or more when I read what happenned. OMG, how horrible. You and your family will be in our prayers, now, more than ever. Please remember the words that have helped me through so much - "God does not give us what we can handle, he helps us handle what we are given." Arms around and around, Susan*
    • CommentAuthornatsmom*
    • CommentTimeDec 29th 2010
     
    Vickie - just horrible...know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers in the days ahead...a loss such as this is just unbearable and unimaginable...peace to you, my friend. D
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    I have been reading, but can't post yet. Thank you all so very much. At least the initial phone calls, etc., has calmed down a bit today and tomorrow I plan just to spend it with DH. He has been so confused, bless his heart, and is worried about me.

    God bless us all!
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      CommentAuthorJudithKB*
    • CommentTimeDec 29th 2010
     
    No one deserves this horrible news and especially you with the burden of your dh's condition. Again...prayers for you.
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      CommentAuthorCarolyn*
    • CommentTimeDec 29th 2010
     
    Vickie, we all had our arms around you during the transplant. Now they are all around you again. We never expect our children to go first and certainly not the way he did.
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    Vickie you are in all our hearts.
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    Vickie, I am so sorry to hear of this loss. My prayers and love are with you.
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      CommentAuthorbuzzelena
    • CommentTimeDec 30th 2010
     
    Vickie, you know my thoughts and prayers and with you both. I just can't imagine what you are going through. I will talk to you on Facebook when things settle down. Love you, Elena.
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    Vicki and family,
    Yes, arms around you and your son's partner's family. The prayer chain is started also. Love and peace to you Phyllis
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    holding you in my heart! It is so hard to understand how one person can be asked to cope with so much. We have been promised that God will provide us with sufficient strenghth for the day. I pray you find the strength for this day and the ability to take each day one at a time. Hugs. RhondaJill
    • CommentAuthorcassie*
    • CommentTimeDec 30th 2010
     
    Vickie, many prayers are being said for you here in Australia as well.
    My most sincere sympathy to you and your DH.
    May you somehow find the strength to cope with this heartbreaking tragedy.
    cassie
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    O my God, Vickie!!! I don't check in here often at all anymore and so, had missed what happened here. My jaw hit the floor when I read your story. I lost my son several years ago, quite suddenly and without warning, so I DO understand your loss. Just know that you are loved and not alone. We are ALL keeping you in our hearts and prayers. So sorry. Jen
    • CommentAuthorbeachgirl
    • CommentTimeDec 31st 2010
     
    I am so sorry to hear about you losing your son. I am so glad that you were able to spend some time with him last October and have family photos taken. You have been through so much and we will be here for you. A big hug to you!
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    Vickie, have they nailed the suspect they arrested driving his car? I check the newspaper that wrote the original story and haven't found a follow up story...since the one with his beautiful picture on it. Simply unbelievable...
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    He is in custody 100 miles away, being held w/o bond on other outstanding warrants. Will be sent back and charged at some point. Still looking for the gun; and he still isn't talking. His poor mother has cooperated with the police. Kevin's body was released and he was cremated yesterday; ashes will be sent here - memorial service being planned. Will let you all know more, as I can. I am holding up pretty well - thanks to all my friends and family. Love you all.
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      CommentAuthormary75*
    • CommentTimeDec 31st 2010
     
    Thank you, Vickie, for letting us know how you are. We love you, too.
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    Vickie-thanks for the update. I also feel sorry for the poor mother. We are here with you.
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      CommentAuthorBama* 2/12
    • CommentTimeDec 31st 2010
     
    Love you, Vickie...
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      CommentAuthorsylvia
    • CommentTimeJan 1st 2011
     
    Cassie I note that you are in Australia, where are you located ? I posted earlier to Vickie, but say again how sorry I feel for you and pleased to hear you say, you are holding up pretty well. Hugs to you and yours.
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    Vickie, just found this after a week with kids. What a shock!!!! You are in my prayers.
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      CommentAuthorSusan L*
    • CommentTimeJan 1st 2011
     
    Vickie you continue to be in my prayers. I will add you to our prayer list in church tomorrow. Arms around, Susan
    • CommentAuthornatsmom*
    • CommentTimeJan 1st 2011
     
    Vickie - Still thinking of you & praying for you...So so sorry for this loss on top of all you are dealing with ~ Take care, my friend. D
    • CommentAuthorKitty
    • CommentTimeJan 4th 2011
     
    Vickie, I just checked in after quite some time. I am so sorry to hear your tragic news. My thoughts are with you during what must be the worst time in your life.
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      CommentAuthorJeanetteB
    • CommentTimeJan 7th 2011
     
    Vickie, I just now found this, I am so sorry. It is incredible. A wonderful picture, he looks like such a fine, warm young man. Dear Vickie, how are you coping? So so sorry.
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      CommentAuthorAnchor20*
    • CommentTimeJan 7th 2011
     
    Vickie, I hate that you have to deal with this while having to endure everything else too. We'll be keeping you in our prayers.

    JimB
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    I am holding onto the ROPE! Been reading here but not posting yet. Seriously, I'm doing as well as I can under the circumstances. DH knows K died, but none of the details. He is doing well too, I think. He asked me yesterday if I wanted us to go away for a couple of weeks when this is all over. This, from DH who CANNOT travel! But he's thinking of me, and always wants to know what he can do to help. Many moments of clarity in the past few days (?). Planning a memorial for Jan. 20th. Police still gathering evidence which will be presented to grand jury shortly, I think. Hired an attorney to represent me down there for the estate - so I don't have to go for anything, thank goodness. May have to file for bankruptcy though after I pay her fees! LOL

    You all have been so caring and supportive and I truly appreciate you all. May 2011 bring us all good things.

    Love you all.
    • CommentAuthordivvi*
    • CommentTimeJan 7th 2011
     
    Vickie its good to hear you (and DH are coping as best you can under circumstances. take care of yourself too.
    hugs
    divvi
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    Vickie-divvi is right. It is so good to hear from you. Your way has not been fair or easy.
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    Vickie, it is great to hear from you...please know we are all thinking of you....Hugs.....
    • CommentAuthorJean21*
    • CommentTimeJan 7th 2011
     
    Nice to hear from you Vickie. I hope all goes well for you as far as the estate and I hope they throw the book at the "thing" that did this.
    • CommentAuthorWeejun*
    • CommentTimeJan 7th 2011
     
    Bless you and DH, Vickie. Keeping you close in prayer.
    • CommentAuthorbriegull*
    • CommentTimeJan 8th 2011
     
    I keep thinking about you and am so glad your husband is able to be sensitive and thoughtful at this time. And that you're surviving.
    • CommentAuthorJanet
    • CommentTimeJan 8th 2011
     
    I too keep thinking about you, Vickie.