(I don't know how long this has been around, but I just got it today and wanted to share it with y'all here. Take care, Ed)

How to Dance in the Rain

It was a busy morning, about 8:30 , when an elderly gentleman in his 80s
arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry
as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over
an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his
watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would
evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the
doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his
wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another
doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat
breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim
of Alzheimer's Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized
him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even
though she doesn't know who you are?
He smiled as he patted my hand and said,
'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and
thought,

'That is the kind of love
I want in my life.'

True love is neither physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be,
and will not be.

With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one
that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought
I could share with you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the best of everything they have.
I hope you share this with someone you care about.
I just did.
'Life isn't about how to survive the storm,
but how to dance in the rain.

thanks for sharing this wonderful story!

I've read this before--it is worth reading again. I think the best part of it is that it gives us the answer to use when people ask why do you do this or that for our loved ones? It's the "she doesn't know me, but I know who she is". Sums it up perfectly.

I had read it before also but also found that it describes my feelings perfectly. I go every evening to feed my husband dinner for the same reason.