I have returned - I posted a short notice on the home page -www.thealzheimerspouse.com- it tells about the changes that are about to occur in my life almost immediately due to my stepmom's death. I will write a blog later on today or tonight.
Thank you all for your kindness, condolences, and support.
Welcome home. Will be praying that your father's move goes well and that being caregiver to two isn't too intense. If it gives Sid something positive to think about and feel like he's a help with--all good.
Joan--speaking as one who is in the same situation (Dad in ALF/husband with AD)--Steve enjoys visiting my Dad and helping me take care of him. It does give him a purpose and someone else to focus on. Hopefully, it will work out that way with Sid.