Does Incontinence come on suddenly? My DH had 3 " accidents" the last one when he didn't wear the underwear that night. He has worn them every night since and so far no more "accidents". I am thinking they can't be comfortable to wear and maybe he can stop wearing them but then think maybe he would do something the first time he stops them. I kind of thought that once it started it was an every night thing. BTW, DH hasn't complained about wearing them.
My suggestion would be.....why rock the boat? If he is willing to wear them, great...he may not be so agreeable when they really become necessary.......
They don't seem to mind them - I agree with Sandi, why rock the boat. If he just takes it as a matter of course that he will wear them, you'll be better off in the future.Sometimes, though, there will be "dry nights."