What I say to myself and others when an anniversary comes around is that we should be grateful that we were lucky enough to have had great years with mutual love. Take comfort in the good memories, as not everyone has them. That is what I try to do.
Our 47th anniversary came 4 months after Bill was gone. That was the hardest day for me. Maybe because that was our day. Remembering the past anniversaries didn't really help because that only reminded me of all I'd lost. I will be thinking of you today, Diane.
Diane, you made another anniversary with your spouse and you can celebrate THAT! Even though we don't know if they will be here for the next one, we have this one. My husband didn't know last year's or this year's, but he was here with me physically.
You are a special lady and this is a special day for you! I hope your anniversary is extra special!!
Happy Anniversary Diane........It is never enough, my 6 yrs with Jim have not been enough, my Mom's 48 yrs with my Dad were not enough. His last words to her were "I'm sorry I won't make our 50th." Jim and I along with our 6 closest friends took her out on what would have been their 50th. We celebrated all the memories, laughed and shared stories. It was wonderful. So do something nice for yourself, and remember the good time. Arms around, Susan
Thank you for all your well wishes. I spent the day with my mom, daughter and grandkids. We went ice skating where I fell on my butt (didn't get hurt thank goodness), visited Santa, and bought a dress and shoes for me. I will be going to my first every Christmas party Saturday night without my husband. I don't know that I will be there long but I think I need to get out a little more.
DianeT, I am glad you enjoyed the day with your family...other than falling, it sounds like a great day. Put on that pretty dress & shoes, and enjoy the party. Your husband would want you to & you diffidently deserve a night out.