I remember reading some of your posts earlier as 'carewife'. What changed? Can you talk about it here? I can take "it's none of your business, Jen", that's okay! Just glad to see you here. The more the better.
I'm just guessing, and hopefully joyful will be along soon to enlighten us, but I took her post to mean her "joyful" sign-in wasn't accepted, but her old screen name of "carewife" was, so that's what she used to sign on.