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    Good lord, just when I think I can finally breath...BAM! DH has had a serious heart condition for 2 years, and he requires and echo cardiagram every 6 months. 6 months ago his doctor discovered a thoracic aortic aneurysm, 5 cm. (this is a bubble in the aorta). They decided to watch it, and started him on meds. We had his 6 month checkup today, and got very bad news. He has converted to Atrial Fibrillation, fast, irregular heart beat. This can significantly increase the risk of stroke. He has a benign tumor in his brain (meningeoma)that was supposed to be "inconsequential". The normal course of treatment would be blood thinners, and an angio gram to check for further damage. Well, he can't take the blood thinner due to a possible brain bleed due to the tumor, and he can't have an angiogram at this point because he only has one kidney, and the contrast dye they use can cause kidney failure. His cardiologist is coordinating with all his other docs, neuro, PCP, etc. to see what the best way to proceed is, and how quickly they can proceed. When I asked what the bottom line is, he looked me straight in the eye and said "Dave may die". SHIT! I felt like I got hit by a truck! His cardiologist is working at warp speed to try and get a plan together, we have 2 days worth of testing at UCLA on the 27th & 28th, and hopefully a resolution at that time (most likely surgery). In the mean time, if you could all keep us your thoughts and prayers, we can use them. Dave is on almost complete bed rest at this point, not to over do himself. Many thanks for listening, God Bless. ~Di
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    Diane, it's hard to believe that life can be so tough and unfair. My thoughts and prayers are for you and Dave.
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      CommentAuthorBama* 2/12
    • CommentTimeJul 8th 2009
     
    Praying for you and Dave that things will get better for you.
    • CommentAuthormarygail*
    • CommentTimeJul 8th 2009
     
    prayers go out to you and Dave, so sorry you have to go through this.
    • CommentAuthorKitty
    • CommentTimeJul 8th 2009
     
    Diane, that's really not OT. So sorry to hear your bad news. I hope the doctors can come up with something for Dave very fast. Sending positive energy your way for Dave and a hug for you.
    • CommentAuthorWeejun*
    • CommentTimeJul 8th 2009
     
    Heartfelt prayers and positive thoughts coming your way Diane.
    • CommentAuthorCharlotte
    • CommentTimeJul 8th 2009
     
    My prayers are with you Diane, your husband and with all the doctors for wisdom to do what is in your husbands best interest.
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      CommentAuthorgmaewok*
    • CommentTimeJul 8th 2009
     
    My prayers, too, are with you and Dave. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
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    Diane-as Kitty said-not OT. We are family and we care about You. Heartfelt wishes to you both.
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    Diane- Life is a journey that takes us to many unexpected places, but we are all here holding your hand and shining the light for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers, and i pray for wisdom for the doctors.
    • CommentAuthorcs
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Wishing the best possible outcome for you and Dave. cs
    • CommentAuthorJudy
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Will be adding my prayers to those of the many here for you and Dave and keeping you in my thoughts as you go through these next days.
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    More prayers going up for you and Dave and to give you strength to deal with this.
    • CommentAuthordivvi*
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Diane, what dreadful news but there is always hope the medical drs in all their wisdom can come up with a plan that can work to help stabilize your dear Dave. keep us informed of your progress, sending you positive energy and rays of hope! divvi
    • CommentAuthortherrja*
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Diane, it is so good that you are right on top of this and being proactive. Hugs to you.
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      CommentAuthorfolly*
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Diane, you and Dave are indeed in my thoughts and prayers. So sorry you have such a calamitous situation to deal with. Please check in when you can.
    • CommentAuthorStuntGirl
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    OH, MY GOSH, DI, I JUST HEARD from you last evening via e-mail and everything seemed FINE! How unexpected! I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. My heartfelt condolences....it's good you have some family to help you some. My prayers are with you, too.
    • CommentAuthorJanet
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Diane, so sorry to hear about all Dave's problems. My prayers are with you.
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      CommentAuthorbuzzelena
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Diane, please add my thoughts and prayers to the list.
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      CommentAuthorNikki
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Diane, so sorry ((hugs)) my thoughts and prayers are also with you and Dave.
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    I posted this right before I went to bed last night. What a wonderful surprise to wake up and find all these messages. Thanks so much to all of you! I truly don't know where I'd be without you. Thanks again! !Di
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      CommentAuthorJeanetteB
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Diane, sorry to hear about Dave's problems, what a long time to wait until the testing. I wish you and Dave lots of strength. Please keep us posted.
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    Keeping you in my prayers, Diane.
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    Diane RK and I send our prayers to you and Dave at this time
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    Thoughts and prayers go out to you.
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      CommentAuthorSusan L*
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Oh Diane, you are in my prayers. Sending positive vibes your way. Is there anyway you can move up the appt. Call daily for a last minute cancellation? Keep us posted. Arms around, Susan
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      CommentAuthorshoegirl*
    • CommentTimeJul 9th 2009
     
    Diane, So sorry. Sending you positive vibes, prayers and all things good.
    • CommentAuthorbilleld
    • CommentTimeJul 10th 2009
     
    Diane, I just lifted up you and your LO in prayer to our Father. Hang in there and know that someone up there cares for you. Love and Hugs, bille
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      CommentAuthormary75*
    • CommentTimeJul 10th 2009
     
    Adding my prayers for both of you. Much love.
    • CommentAuthorStuntGirl
    • CommentTimeJul 10th 2009
     
    Di.....well, what happened to Dave??? What's the update?
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    Thank you all for your generousity and your prayers. They are appreciated more than you can know. There is no update at this point, he's sleeping most of the day, which is good, I think, and until he has the tests done on the 27th and return to the cardiologist on August 3rd, we won't know anything. Thanks again all of you!