I am starting this collection of words that can help us thru this journey...two of my favorites so far are: 1. If you have seen one alz patient, you have seen 1 alz patient. 2. "Don't argue, the disease always wins"
Zibby, I'll add to yours, "Dont sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff" 2. When you go to bed, give your troubles to God, he's up all night anyway. 3. Relax, God is in Charge. 4. Worrying will not empty to day of its troubles, it will empty tomorrow of its strength. 5. God does not give us what we can handle, He gives us the strength to handle what we are given. (my favorite)
I've been taking a very intensive (3 days a wk., half a day each for five weeks) course of training called Dialectic Behavioral Therapy....it is designed to help us develop coping skills and and a "middle mind" set of behaviors. To sum it up as others have said......IT IS WHAT IT IS. Acceptance of what we cannot change. I can only change how I react and feel toward a situation or person.
Stuntgirl, I *really* need your words: "I can only change how I react and feel toward a situation or person." Intellectually, I've known this; it's the "doing" I need to be reminded of. Thank you.
A few years ago my husband was at the Alzheimer's Public Policy Forum and told one of our congressmen that he had Alzheimer's disease. The congressman told him to "hang in there". At first my husband thought he was rude & uncaring but now "hanging in there" is his reply when anyone asks how he's doing.
A doctor once told my mother while my father was ill "yesterday is a canceled check, tomorrow is a promissory note, today is ready cash, spend it while you can.