I took an afternoon nap and came back to threads that have gotten out of control, misunderstood, and hurting people's feelings. This is NOT the intention of the message boards. We are here to support one another through the Hell of having a spouse with AD if we choose, or stay silent if we choose.
Apparently a lot of people, including myself, and many have who e-mailed me, as well as have written on the boards, are having a difficult, emotional time, and their feelings are raw.
As I said in the "Post or Not Post" thread - people do what they need at the time. Some post; some read; some rarely post; some e-mail me.
I am closing the "strike" and "C'mon everyone, post" thread. I am sorry if this offends anyone, but we need to get back on track here, which is to relate, support, ask for advice, and give advice - with compassion and non-judgment. Or just read if we don't feel like writing.
My thoughts also, even though I have not been on the board all afternoon...painting my dinning room, so I didn't read the post. Thanks Joan, you are a dear.
Many of us come to this site for various reasons, none of our spouses are alike, each one is different. I spend a lot of time reading here and not very much time writing.
I have my hands full, this week has been a very difficult week and weekend for me. Today has been particularly stressful. I am sure there are others who are in the same boat. I appreciate the support, advice and words of encouragement. If I have something to contribute I will add my comments to a thread.
It's wonderful that we are able to talk openly and frankly. I don't know about the rest of you but I need to know I am not alone on this journey and am grateful for the opportunity to exchange information and thoughts with folks like you who understand.
Meee Toooo! I don't know ANYONE else in this community who is dealing with this particular issue. They may be 'out there' but at this point, its a silent silent matter. It is only through this place that I feel encouraged and understood. Enormous thanks to Joan and everyone!
I agree with all of the above also but I also know that sometimes I need "to get away from it all" but, I need to get away from it all with people who understand my need to do that AND have to do it without leaving the house. I have gotten much serious, valuable advice and information from this board, but I have also enjoyed lighter side. My favorite threads lately have been the "alrighty then" and the ones about lost articles that have been dealt with with humor. We all live in a constant state of stress and if we can relieve even a little bit of that with a few positive and funny things that come from it I am all for it.