The hospice nurse told me today Claude probably has about 10 days to 2 weeks before he passes away. Even tho we knew it was coming and thought we were prepared, we're no where near ready for it.
Our hospice has been wonderful the last three months. We talked about hospice 10 years ago when my brother-in-law had hospice. We both decided that when our time came, we wanted to die peacefully at home.
It's been a long, hard six years since he was first diagnosed. Unfortunately we have no choice for when our bodies choose to fail us.
Redbud, you and Claude are in my constant thoughts and prayers. That must be devistating hearing that the end is so near. Please take good care of yourself, and I'm so glad Hospice is taking such good care of your Claude. Hugs, ~Di
Mary, I may be new to all this, but dear God, how my heart hurts for you. Please feel all our arms around you. Know that God will give you the strength to get through this, somehow. My prayers are with you, always. Remember, "GOD DOESN'T give us what we can handle, GOD HELPS US HANDLE what we are given. Love and hugs, Susan
Mary - In some ways this can be a precious time of saying good-bye. Get as much rest as possible. Hospice does their best to make the end as comfortable as can be. Thinking of you.
redbud, Hang in there, let hospice help you. I know this is a hard time in the journey but I pray he finds peace from this horrible disease. Please take care of yourself thru all of this. TandP's. Rk
You and Claude and your family as well as your Hospice staff are in my prayers. May you find strength and peace and may Claude have a peaceful passing. Get some rest, cherish the good times. I know that I will be following in your path. Love you Phyllis
Mary, Even though we who are caregivers have grieved for many years for our loved one, we are not prepared for the final goodbye. I pray for your final release and the strength to endure this last trial .
Redbud You and your family are in my prayers , there is little anyone can say at a time like this I know I lost my husband in Nov. just take each moment and relish the time that is left. I know in my heart that my husband knew we were with him. and yours will know also. God Bless
God's strength and power are yours now to take...he will hold you during this time. Allow yourself to do whatever you think you need to do, and be there for one another. Prayers to all of you.
Mary, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God give you the strength for the coming days, and I hope that you are able to be surrounded in person with the love, like we all have for you at this site. (((HUGS))) - Red
Redbud, I am so sorry for your loss. Hope you take comfort in knowing he is at peace. Give yourself a pat on the back for taking this journey with him. I know it's hard to not have him, but he is still with you, watching over and protecting you now. Please find some time to rest and take care of yourself. Sincerely Rk
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the difficult days ahead. I am so sorry for your loss. Yes, Claude is at peace, but the pain of loss is still there. Please take care.
My deepest condolences. Your dearest has finally been released from the clutches of Alzheimer's Disease. I hope you can now find some peace in your life and comfort in the good memories.
Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. Please take time to grieve, and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Nothing prepares you for that moment, no matter how prepared you rhink you are. Take good care. Hugs to you ~Di
Mary, sincere condolences. I'm glad Claude's passing was peaceful. May memories of better days, before AD, comfort you. He was blessed to having a loving caregiver.
Mary, thank you for taking time to come here and let us know. Your DH is at peace and you have survived. Sounds like you have a great support system. Come back when you feel like you can. You can help the rest of us as we travel down the same path.
Mary, your love and strength are an inspiration to me as I begin this horrible journey. Your husband was a very lucky man to have you. God Bless, Susan