Nanapapa, you and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers.
Judi, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I wish you'd found us a little earlier, so we could have helped you more, but I'm glad you're here now.
Please both of you, feel free to come and share what you are dealing with. You are in our thoughts and our prayers as is anyone who is going through this last stage of this horrible disease. We care.
So very sorry, and I can completely understand. As bad as Andrea looked, and as much as I wanted her out of pain, I just couldn't imagine the thought of her not being there. Even though she wasn't there, really. But I just knew her being gone would be worse, for me. So very, very selfish. I guess it was selfish love.
Many many thanks yous to those of you who responded. This is a tough place to be in, but it is comforting to have the support of all of you. Husband is still breathing, but that's about it.