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    • CommentAuthorBelinda.K
    • CommentTimeOct 25th 2008
     
    I am 57 and my husband is 59. We have been married for 5 years.
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeOct 26th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 10/26/08


    40 - 4
    50 -32
    60 - 18
    70 - 11
    80 - 1
    • CommentAuthorcarewife
    • CommentTimeOct 27th 2008
     
    I am 75 but will be 76 in December....Used to not pay attentiion to age but now after caregiving look every bit of my age.
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      CommentAuthorJenene56
    • CommentTimeOct 27th 2008
     
    I just turned 61 and my DH is 75 and married for 34 years
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeOct 27th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 10/27/08


    40 - 4
    50 -32
    60 - 19
    70 - 12
    80 - 1
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      CommentAuthorchris r*
    • CommentTimeOct 28th 2008
     
    part of the age skew also is that men in general marry younger women, or vise versa, women marry older men . I've noticed on our website, how many women are married to older men as I am. He's 85, and doesn't go near the computer. Do we have a thread as to the ages of those with the disease? I'll bet we'd find a good number in the 80's.
    • CommentAuthorEvalena
    • CommentTimeOct 28th 2008
     
    I'm also in that May/Dec. category.
    This was from Kadee's most recent email: What are the age groups?

    This is just the ages of the people who have replied under this post. Also, their ages now, not when first diagnosed.

    40's - 2
    50's -27
    60's - 26
    70's - 32
    80's - 20

    Updated: 10/25/08
    • CommentAuthorLizbeth
    • CommentTimeOct 28th 2008
     
    I think part of the skew is because there are very few EOAD support groups so EOAD are looking on-line for support.
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeOct 28th 2008
     
    Chris, You replied to "What are the Ages" which is the statistics for the spouses whom have dementia.
    Evalena, is correct I only keep track of those who wish to reply to the post. There could be others.
    On 10/25/08 my last update there were 20 spouses in their 80's.
    • CommentAuthortherrja*
    • CommentTimeOct 28th 2008
     
    Iam 50, husband is 74.
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      CommentAuthormary75*
    • CommentTimeOct 28th 2008
     
    I'm 78. My husband will be 89 in 2 months.
    • CommentAuthorGay
    • CommentTimeOct 28th 2008
     
    I am 63 and my husband is 84
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeOct 29th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 10/29/08


    40 - 4
    50 -32
    60 - 20
    70 - 13
    80 - 1
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    Kadee-are you including only hands on caregivers vs. those of us who have placed our LO's
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeOct 29th 2008
     
    bluedaze, I am including both. Doesn't matter whether you are hands on, you are still a caregiver in my eyes. Hugs, to all caregiver's
    • CommentAuthorukgrl
    • CommentTimeOct 29th 2008
     
    I am 45. Husband 48. Two kids at home. Living with AD for about 3 years now but he was only diagnosed this summer. The lost summer.....
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeOct 30th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 10/30/08


    40 - 5
    50 -32
    60 - 20
    70 - 13
    80 - 1
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 3rd 2008
     
    Sending to the top.
    • CommentAuthorSharan*
    • CommentTimeNov 3rd 2008
     
    I am 46.

    40-6
    50-32
    60-20
    70-13
    80-1
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 3rd 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 11/3/08

    40 - 6
    50 -32
    60 - 20
    70 - 13
    80 - 1
    • CommentAuthorBar-bra
    • CommentTimeNov 4th 2008
     
    New here - thank you for allowing me to become a member :)

    Husband 71
    I'm 66
    Married 47 years
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 4th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 11/4/08

    40 - 6
    50 -32
    60 - 21
    70 - 13
    80 - 1
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 4th 2008
     
    Welcome Bar-bra, I am sorry you need to join us, however, you will find everyone here kind, helpful & non-judgmental. My husband has Frontal Temporal Dementia (FTD) he is 57 years old, started showing signs of dementia at 52.
    Others will be along shortly to welcome you. Please feel free to post anytime.
    • CommentAuthorjaydee
    • CommentTimeNov 4th 2008
     
    I am brand new to this site and am 59. My husband is 61
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    welcone jaydee-I am sorry to see so many young new members. We should be in our prime and enjoying what we have worked so hard for.
    • CommentAuthorSunshyne
    • CommentTimeNov 4th 2008
     
    jaydee hi, and welcome. Start a new thread and tell us more about yourself. Is there anything we can do to help?
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 4th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 11/4/08

    40 - 6
    50 -33
    60 - 21
    70 - 13
    80 - 1

    Welcome Jaydee, Sorry you need to join us, however, you will find everyone kind & helpful. Post again anytime.
    • CommentAuthorSunshyne
    • CommentTimeNov 4th 2008
     
    Whoops! Missed Bar-bra's post. HI!!! Won't you please tell us more about you? We like to know who's in our family...
    • CommentAuthordivvi*
    • CommentTimeNov 4th 2008
     
    Welcome Bar-bra and Jaydee!! the need to find support groups like this one seems evermore present. Glad you ladies found the site and joined.tell us more when you can. divvi
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 6th 2008
     
    ttt
    • CommentAuthorBillH
    • CommentTimeNov 6th 2008
     
    Hi This is my first attempt to write but have been reading the blogs and message board for this past year. I turn 82 years old today Nov. 6 and my wife will turn 83 on Christmas day. She was diagnosed Dementia with lewy bodies 3 years ago. I am the sole caregiver.
    • CommentAuthorSunshyne
    • CommentTimeNov 6th 2008
     
    Bill, hi, and welcome to our little family. My mother was officially diagnosed with AD, but my father (a doctor) became convinced that she had Lewy Body. It's a tough disease, so sorry your wife has it. Let us know what we can do to help.

    Oh -- and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
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    Bill, welcome, and Happy Birthday. I am 77 and my wife is 78. She is in stage 6 of AD. It's tough to be the sole caregiver (as I, also, am). Be sure and look for respite times. I take my wife to an Adult Day center 3 mornings a week so I can get some exercise and do some shopping, haircut, etc.
    • CommentAuthordivvi*
    • CommentTimeNov 6th 2008
     
    Welcome, Bill. and HAPPY BIRTHDAY! there is alot to digest with info and there is lots of good posts here with valuable info for you when you can get to it. glad you are part of the group now. divvi
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 6th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 11/6/08

    40 - 6
    50 -33
    60 - 21
    70 - 13
    80 - 2
  4.  
    Welcome Bill and Happy Birthday! Let us know if there is something you need and we'll try to help any way we can!
  5.  
    Hi Bill,

    What a great birthday present you gave to yourself (and to us) by joining us officially!! Happy Birthday to you!!!...and welcome.
  6.  
    Another welcome, Bill. I really admire the guys here who are taking care of their wives. Joan's place will be a great help.
  7.  
    Happy Birthday, Bill. Welcome to the club
    • CommentAuthorSunshyne
    • CommentTimeNov 8th 2008
     
    to the top...
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    My age is 61 - have been a caregiver since I was 55.
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 10th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 11/10/08

    40 - 6
    50 -33
    60 - 22
    70 - 13
    80 - 2
    • CommentAuthorRk
    • CommentTimeNov 11th 2008
     
    Ok, Kadee I thought I had replied to this post, a while back. So if my tired eyes are not playing tricks on me, I haven't. But you may want to check just in case so I don't get counted twice. Rk



    I am 48..... Dh just turned 54
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 11th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 11/11/08

    40 - 7
    50 -33
    60 - 22
    70 - 13
    80 - 2
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 11th 2008
     
    Rk, You posted on the spouse ages, however, not caregiver's.
    • CommentAuthortexasgirl
    • CommentTimeNov 11th 2008
     
    I am 48, hubby is 59. (MCI DX early 2008)
    • CommentAuthorKadee*
    • CommentTimeNov 11th 2008
     
    Statistics: Ages of caregivers as of 11/11/08

    40 - 8
    50 -33
    60 - 22
    70 - 13
    80 - 2
    • CommentAuthorMMarshall
    • CommentTimeNov 12th 2008
     
    I am new here to spouse but have posted on the Alzheimer's Assn. site. I am 64 my DH is 68.
    • CommentAuthorSunshyne
    • CommentTimeNov 12th 2008 edited
     
    Well, hi there, MMarshall! Welcome to our little family.

    Normally, Joan herself would pop by to welcome you personally, but we have just given her a very firm lecture on the need to rest a bit, and she had BETTER BE BEHAVING. (Ahem. I'm keeping an eye on you, Joan!) Besides, she's supposed to be working on a series of special blogs about the holidays. So I shall try to fill in for her:

    Be sure to check the home page - www.thealzheimerspouse.com- look on the left side - there are many topics filled with information. Joan always suggests that newcomers to the site read "Newly Diagnosed/New to this website" first, and then check out "Understanding the Dementia Experience". When you get a chance, scroll through the "previous blogs. I'm sure you'll find many topics you can relate to.

    Information on the home page is updated frequently with new blogs, news and/or information updates, so many of us check there every day.

    You can search for topics of interest, using the "search" button at the top of the page. Enter a key word that might be found in the title of the thread (click on the "topic" button) or in the posts (click on "comments") Note: this particular site will pull up any comments that have the key word anywhere in the post, even if it's part of a longer word, so you can enter, for example, "myoclon" and pull up posts that mention myoclonus and myoclonic jerks.

    You can start a new thread by clicking on the "start a new discussion" link in the upper left-hand corner.

    There are also a couple of other fun threads where we hope you'll post -- "What are the Age Groups?" (for the AD spouses), and "Where are you from?"

    Another great thread you'll want to be sure to read is "Caregiver Tips - Things I wish someone had told me back in Stage 2-3"

    The people here are wonderful. Let us know what we can do to help you.
    • CommentAuthorMMarshall
    • CommentTimeNov 12th 2008
     
    Thanks Sunshyne! I know I have come to the right place.