JOAN’S WEEKEND BLOG – AUGUST 24-26, 2007- BEING THANKFUL FOR THE POSITIVE Announcement – EOAD program to watch in the Southern Florida area. We have discussed EOAD (Early Onset Alzheimer’s Disease) frequently on this website. Please see copy of e-mail announcement below: I have pasted a link for the program's transcript at the end of the e-mail for those of you who are not able to watch.
I know the Rodriguez family personally, and they are fantastic people, just like all of you, dealing with a very difficult situation – a relatively young wife and teenagers watching their husband and father disappear before their eyes. Please watch if you are able. Now to the subject of thankfulness – Most of the time, we are so overburdened with responsibilities and sadness for the relationship we have lost, that we don’t take the time to look at the good things in our lives. Let’s do that now: The friends who stayed – yes, we have talked about the ones who left, but there are a few, maybe only one, who has stuck with you, and is on call to help when you need it. Maybe it’s just to pick up a prescription for you on their way home, or shovel your walk when it snows, or on the opposite end of the country, put up the hurricane shutters, but most of us have someone we can call a true friend. For that, we should be thankful. I am lucky enough to have more than one – they know who they are – I appreciate all of you. The moments of connection – the loss of companionship and the accompanying loneliness is an unrelenting pain we have discussed, but once in a while, we reconnect with the spouse that was. It may only be for a day, an evening, or as little as an hour, but when it happens, we feel the love and closeness that was, and it is bliss. For those moments, we should be thankful. I hope you take a little time this weekend to think of, and be thankful for, the good things in your life. Feedback to joan@thealzheimerspouse.com |